Hi! Yes - I do have a hard time knowing when to trust someone and when not to trust someone... how can you know when you can when you can't? The two people that I had an issue with were my closest and best friends unfortunately... and they are the healthiest relationships I've ever had.


You understand it correctly! I'm glad to know that I'm not the only one that has been in this situation before... is there a way to label this 'type'? Is it some Cluster B personality trait (Borderline, Narcissistic, etc)? I'm going to look for commonalities in these different 'types' and commonalities that I've done in relationships with them - and hopefully will develop some insight into what is going on.