View Single Post
 
Old May 09, 2014, 07:56 PM
healingme4me's Avatar
healingme4me healingme4me is offline
Perpetually Pondering
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: New England
Posts: 46,298
Quote:
Originally Posted by wyss View Post
Thank you for this. I will definitely ask him if it is still on his mind. I've known her for 20 years and she's been "*****y" before (thrown a pizza on my floor because I joked about it have anchovies, stormed out of a restaurant because her salad came with the wrong dressing), but she has NEVER done anything like this before. I told him that I had seen her do some strange things, but I also told him I had no idea she was capable of being this cruel.

And, in respective of my own personal boundaries, that friendship is "away". I cannot have someone in my life who can be that cruel and that unpredictable. It just isn't healthy.

Even if I do find out that this is what is bothering him, what can I do to make it better?
Time will heal this over. It seems, he's into you. Just super busy and squeezing you in, best he can.

Trust, involves not second guessing.
When his schedule is back to normal, observe if any specific needs aren't being met, and communicate.



Sent from my LG-MS910 using Tapatalk 2