and he's asked me to move in with him (he just bought a house). It wasn't a bad break up... it just got too hard... we lived 2.5 hours apart, he couldn't find a job and was living with his parents, and he didn't have a license. Now, we each have moved a half hour closer to one another (1 hour apart now), he bought a house in the fall, has a really good job, and there's a lot more jobs that pay better than my current job that I hate and they're all for things I like to do. I'm actually thinking hard about it... it'd make things easier on both of us, and I love him... just haven't told him yet. I'm going out to see him next weekend, and that will probably push me one way or the other... any advice?

lisa