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Originally Posted by tessaone
I am confused as well. I wonder just who is who in the email. are you and your spouse seeing a therapist? Were the questions from the therapist to you about your spouse? In any case, do continue therapy and remember that actions always speak louder than words. Hope that helped
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Originally Posted by hvert
Do you have your own therapist you can talk to? I am sort of confused by who is who in the email. It is your husband telling you that if you say 'I love you, I trust you,' you will trust him again?
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Yes it is my husband telling me that this is what we need to do so we can trust each other again. No the therapist didnt instruct us to but yes we are going to therapy, well twice anyway. I just get angry and confrontational because he just keeps telling lies and won't be honest with me. Almost 27 years of this I know the answers I guess I'm just looking for conformation. Thanks any opinions are greatly appreciated!! 2 therapist couples and then I the wife have one