I've been with my bf for nearly 6 months now and most of the time its great. Its just lately we've had some problems with his close friend and also another friend that like to cause problems with us. And everytime me and my friends say stuff about them he gets narky at me. Even though he knows they are dodgy ppl. We have come to an agreement to confront these 'friends' and tell them how they make us feel etc but yeah I feel like I have to agree with everything he says otherwise he'll leave me. It never used to be like that. I'm stressed that he wants to leave me and I can't cope with it. I think that i can and then an argument happens and I feel we will break up then I freak out and just think well theres no point me even being alive... I have had this previously and I hate the way that my feelings and emotions are controlled by him (not saying he's aware of this, but I am) I want to find a way to become stronger and not live my life just freaking out over every little argument etc. Does anyone have some advice or ideas? Thanks
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