I regret you are being treated this way. Unfortunately, some parents are for some reason not fair to their children. I saw it with my cousins. There three of them. The first on the angel, the second was the scapegoat and the third child could also do know worong. The second child was blamed for everything and the first child would lie just to get her in trouble. I don't know what makes parents do this. I never have. I watched when I was a child and didn't get it. It made me glad to be an only child. I had rather be by myself than deal with all the drama they had in their family. I don't think there is anyway to understand their way of parenting, but you are not wrong, they are. I wish I had some great advice for you, but I don't. I don't see any of them changing anytime soon. Keep saving your money and move out as soon as you can from this toxic family.