Just thought I would stop in and post-

I know why she is still here................. my last and final alter.

.... She is helping ME with my MARRIAGE -
Until I can sort out her feelings from my feelings, as to not react irrationally until I have the full facts, based on me and me only - and not that of her or the past, that which she lived thru.... that which has left me confused for I feel both deep love & hate in this marriage - one is hers and one is mine, but who holds what?