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Originally Posted by brainhi
I do not know what Narcissistic supply is - would it help you to put a label on "who you might be"? You went through a very difficult time. You want to learn how to make things better. As far as telling family about therapy....it's smart to get help going through a transition. The right people understand that...you need only to worry about making things better for you and your child. I wish you the very best!
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Thank you for the post and the very good quotes. It prompted me to read up on nueroplasticity and rewiring of the brain and I feel slowly it would be possible for me to get out of my misery if I changed my thought process. The reason why I wanted to put a name to my own behaviour is perhaps because at this time I need to be able to understand my own actions as much as I need to his callous disappearance. It's a long journey but I suppose I brought it on to myself and giving up everything for someone such as this person was so ridiculously foolish. I am just so appalled and still in disbelief that someone can just walk away from a relationship...of course that's rich coming from me...after all I did cheat, emotionally or otherwise...although I must add it never felt like it even a bit. I must be quite shameless...there's nothing to say in my defence.
Can you suggest a way in which I can start accepting his sudden abandonment? I know engaging my mind in a job will help... But in the meantime...