Did he actually say he didn't like you that way?

I wouldn't say you are doomed for 60 years. As you said you were doing good up until this happened. I know how you feel though. I have not been in a relationship in a long time. I think mainly due to my depression. I get to thinking who would really want to be with me and put up with all that depression. I am 50 and have had lots of relationships and even a marriage in the past in spite of my problems so it is possible. You are 23 and there is someone out there for you if it is not this guy. We deserve to have someone too I often think but then I think that it will never happen for me. So I dunno. I try very hard not to base my well being on outside circumstances. Of course this is very difficult.