I doubt that she doesn't enjoy sex because she is not a virgin... That doesn't make sense... It implies that you have had sex with her multiple times, so maybe it's more the way you two have sex and not because she has had sex before... I suggest you start to have a more open mind about this, and ask her what she likes during sex, have an open and honest discussion about sex and try some new ways :-)

Your post really concerns me - you say that you love her, yet you fight with her about having previous partners, call her loose, and doesn't have much values... Maybe her values are different to yours??? That does not make it WRONG.

I feel that you need to take a step back from her if you can't get over her past... Because your opinion of her and fighting with her every day is damaging to her.

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