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Originally Posted by StbGuy
I was just reminded of the thing that happened to me, and I projected that onto all of you and it's not right. So, if anyone is the bad person around here, it's me.
I always knew I was a sick monster and this just proves it. If I get isolated I deserve it. Nobody should have to deal with a jerk like me, what happened to me with that girl was right, I just didn't want to believe that I was an unlovable, gross, sadistic human being, but I am, I lived in denial. I deserve to be dumped and discarded, because I'm a very sick human being. There is only one person to blame, and that is me.
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You overreacted with your first post and yes, you did project your own experience. But we've all done that at some point in our lives!  It doesn't make you a monster, or a bad person, or anything else. It just shows that you've been hurt and that you don't want to see anyone else be hurt the same way that you were. That's not monstrous behaviour, that's compassion.
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