This may sound mean, but bipolar doesn't randomly jerk your tongue and vocal cords to say hurtful things. It's YOU who says it.

Can't sent bills to bipolar (although it'd be awesome).

If it happens first time, it's understandable and apologizable. If it happens over and over and over.... than you are at fault and "bipolar made me do it" will make the situation only worse.

There are ways to stop yourself from acting impusively. It just takes lot of work. Roadblocks. Learning to sleep on big decisions. Learning to recognize your and your impulsive disordered thoughts. Learn to get hold of yourself when going into the danger zone....