Hi 10, thank you for sharing what is going on. What you are describing sounds like integration maybe? Where the different parts basically become one with K? What I am talking about is a safe room. It would be like your bedroom inside, but it would be a room you go to when you feel you are going to hurt the body. You all would have to work together to decide how you want it to look and be. It is not a container. Think about the other rooms you have inside, you can go in and out of those, right? This would just be another room to help keep the body and each of you safe.
Maybe you could try a little more with your new T? Ask her if she has worked with DID before or not. If not then you all need to work together to decide if you want to be her first or if you want to find a T that specialized in DID. You could even see both if you wanted. You as a system need to work together and help each other out. You need to communicate. Also, if you are uncomfortable with your T hugging you, tell your T that. She should not be upset, and if she is then you know you need to find a new T.

Be well,

Celtic