Thank you both, I appreciate your advice. I will definitely write once more, but I didn't mention that he also just moved a few days ago, so maybe he is very busy unpacking and such? Yet he was definitely online multiple times anyway... Do you think I should wait a couple more days first?
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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Three days, without any notice, would irritate the **** out of me. That's just me. I don't like babying the men in my life. Have sensitivity for me, I'll have sensitivity, for you. It's a two way street.
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Haha, I agree it is irritating when dating in general. I hate waiting for a response and not knowing what the other person is thinking, especially if things were going really well.
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Originally Posted by waiting4
I wish you luck, but take care. It's very odd to have someone start the 'scruples' game within the first couple of messages. It's also very 'catfishy'.
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Yes, I ordinarily would not have started saying personal things so quickly, and it hasn't happened with anyone else on the site. I was wondering if I shouldn't tell him so much and vice versa, but I think we just had a lot in common. Maybe he's afraid to meet me now since we've said so much before actually meeting?? I'm not sure. Or maybe you're right and he never intended to meet, though it seems like he wanted to.