My biggest issue with support is feeling I am not worthy of somebody else’s time and attention. AKA, low self esteem and self worth.

My best friend is my biggest supporter—she calls to check on me or to just say hi. She encourages me to get better, listens to me, is honest, tells me things I sometimes don’t want to hear, she is patient, sometimes she just spends time with me…sometimes we just have fun together. The biggest thing she does to support me is share part of her life with me—her time and part of herself—I feel privileged when she shares her feelings.

My friend, who I consider to be my kindred spirit, is always trying to get me to see how much I have overcome and how special I am…We have wonderful conversations about morals, spirituality, life meaning…we may have differing points of views, but we always listen to each other and respect each others words.

My dad—who is actually my step dad—is a support. Although I did not meet him until I was older, he taught me about unconditional love. I am his little angel—no matter what I do, he loves me. We have a special relationship. I am so fortunate to have him in my life—he did not have to love me, but he does anyway.

My boyfriend encourages and supports me in my artistic endeavors. He always finds a piece of good in whatever I create—he points out things that I would miss. This gives me direction in my art.

My T and my pdoc offer great support—they may be paid to do it, but I feel like they are personally invested in me. They give me part of their energy—part of themselves.

And, of course, this group offers me invaluable support. No matter what time of the day I can login here and feel uplifted about myself and my life. No problem is too big or too small—somebody always has a word of advice or encouragement.

When I was young I had no support—nobody protected me or helped me…that is such a lonely feeling.

What a great question—thanks for letting me share. Its good to think about this—it makes me feel grateful for the people I have in my life. I truly am a rich person.