Where did you get the idea you had to have a point? You are a lovely person, not a pencil! I'm sorry you don't feel your problems are "good enough" for others to consider and if your problems aren't that important/big enough, then how is it you think you can cause others so much hurt and pain? You can't have it both ways :-)

I suspect you "bother" because that's all that we're here for. Everyone is here to bother about themselves/their lives. You can't bother about someone else's, you only have your own and it sounds like you're doing well by yourself! You are worth something to yourself or you wouldn't bother posting. Good for you! I'm glad you shared your pain with me.