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Originally Posted by Acj5114
It seemed like she was testing me but there was no way for me to pass. I keep playing back the last couple of months in my head thinking about what I could've done better. Idk though, maybe it has nothing to do with me, because I changed my actions dramatically just to show her I cared & she still carried on with her actions.
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it likely had nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. I had a similar situation with my ex-wife, and there was nothing I could have done to change the outcome (I tried several times). We are friends now though, and I see how I would have been going nuts trying to make things work with her... it's a tough situation. Relationship endings are difficult and I am sorry you are going through this now. It's ok to be sad and grieve and be angry and whatever other emotions come up...
