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Originally Posted by Leah123
Perhaps there's a lesson for you here about advocating for yourself? Your T's been vague so far, what if you told him the truth: that you need weekly therapy and a fully committed T and that you're tempted to take care of him, such as by cutting back yourself, and then let him respond to that?
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Thanks, I think I am just going to have to be honest with him about that. I think he feels a duty of care to me and that it would be unethical to suggest any kind of lessening of sessions because I have severe rejection issues he doesn't want to trigger. It leaves me second guessing what his needs are. If he doesn't look after himself therapy will be ineffective anyway.