Both ways. She says i started it, end quote. According to her, when i was two weeks old, they took me out of my crib to play with me in the living room, but i motioned with my head that i wanted to be taken back to the bedroom. I would like to know what two-week old infant can even hold their stupid head up, let alone indicate intent like that? Anyway, she also said recently (like in the past 10 years) that i rejected her first.