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Originally Posted by soundslikebliss
She doesn't know that I broke up with her to see if she goes back to snorting coke, being with anyone who gives her a bit of attention, and breaks her 1 year sobriety goal.
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The above struck me as odd Are you assuming she is going to do all these things or are you going by past behavior?
Are you leaving her hanging just to see what she will do with out you there ???
The point is you both cheated and unless you both agree to an open realtionship I would imagine this will"probably" going to continue. Of course your going to be in pain and feel depressed over this "relationship" that's a normal reaction.
I think you have 2 options ...1. Go about the way you two have acted in the past and be open about sleeping with others or you 2. break off the relationship.
If you choose to leave you will need to process the loss and grieve for a relationship ending.
If you choose to stay are you going to ever be able to trust her again ?
These are choices you have to make.
I wish you the best
