Bingo! The issue with the swimming class is merely a symptom of a larger underlying problem. To address the symptom while ignoring the real problem would be irresponsible, IMHO. Like recommending aspirin for a headache....caused by a brain tumor.

My earlier response was intended to "poke" fmpro a little, and perhaps cause him to step back and think about the situation...maybe to provide a little stimulus to spread his wings, make his own decisions, leave the nest and live the life he was given.

Sorry if that offends anybody.