Hi purplepearl, hey still time to "enlighten" him though!! He should still be there to give you
some support

You should be working together, right?? It shouldn't be
him and you with the problems........you
didn't ask for this, and I'm
sure you're understanding and supportive towards him in other ways and when you can be. Probably
more than you're giving yourself credit for??!!
So, yes a bit more openness??? And it's
OK, if you don't know why you get like this. There isn't
always an explanation, there isn't
always a trigger,
sometimes it is what it is.......
really hard I know but................And the
main thing is getting the help/support to try to help you with that and try to work through it as best you can.
And nothing to say you can't work towards "putting it behind you" in time. Might take the right medication, might take something else...........but you
are on the road
already in reaching out for some help/support.
Just time to help him a little more with that, with his understanding, too, hey??

Alison