I recently found out my fiance is cheating on me with his best friends wife; its been going on for about five months; he has no clue I know yet. I cheated on him about two years ago, we worked on things, counseling, rebuilding trust. I feel like I brought this on myself and changed who he was. I dont want to leave him, want to make things work, I think from what I have read its all sexual the meet up in parking lots and lunch dates, I wasnt giving him a lot of sexual attention because I felt uncomfortable in my own skin because I felt like he never forgave me.... so confused..