i am guy ......i am going to say this in guy terms .....i mean it nicely

1 guys love crazy lady (we know all ladies are crazy anyways but the ones that have a doctors note we love) ........it comes down to alot of things but the basic of it is better sex and we can win arguments now and then

2 if u like the guy then feel him out on some tester ?s ........if u see something coming out of it then tell him the truth once u are ready and then u have someone back u up

i dated a few ladies over the years with troubles .....i am friends with all but one of them (one stole alot of money from me and then tried to have me locked up)

if u get to a point where he is your BF ..........train him to help u with whatever your triggers are (few times the ladies have hit bottom and called me up to help them out .........1 of them even saved my butt a few times)