I had this guy wanting to hug me all the time and I kept saying no so he chased me, and I really freaked out about it. My T called it "sexual harassment" because he wanted to touch me and I did not want him to. But I don't think of all hugs as sexual, more like friendly. But I agree with my therapist that the guy was sexually harassing me because of the not wanting to touch thing. Please don't comment saying that "its just a hug" because I have every right to say no to it and not be bothered.
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