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Originally Posted by Petra5ed
I agree with another poster, for a hug in and of itself to be sexual it would need to involve hands on my butt, maybe a kiss, grinding pelvises together, an unusually long embrace... Not the kind of hug I usually have with my T for sure. Lol, maybe this week I should try to grab his butt  . |
*Sits down with popcorn*
Please let us know if you give this a whirl
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Originally Posted by lunatic soul
We still hugged after that kiss but maybe if we never kissed I could hug him. Its so easy tto lose nice things...
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You kissed your T? Woah. What happened there?!
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Originally Posted by krisakira
I had this guy wanting to hug me all the time and I kept saying no so he chased me, and I really freaked out about it. My T called it "sexual harassment" because he wanted to touch me and I did not want him to. But I don't think of all hugs as sexual, more like friendly. But I agree with my therapist that the guy was sexually harassing me because of the not wanting to touch thing. Please don't comment saying that "its just a hug" because I have every right to say no to it and not be bothered.
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This sounds awful. How did you get him to quit in the end?
I have a friend who I do like, he is a nice guy, but whenever we share a bed he creeps closer and closer and wants to cuddle all the time. It doesn't freak me out, but it really, really annoys me. I make it clear with very obvious body language that I don't want to cuddle, and he eventually gets it and stops. He is very sweet and gentle and I would never want to hurt him so am reluctant to bring it up.
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Originally Posted by StressedMess
The following is purely my opinion based on my own life experiences.
A quick side hug for brothers and sisters, so nobody's business is rubbing all over my business. My kids get hugs unreservedly because I gave birth to them and don't consider hugging them to be a violation. A hug between lovers is certainly different than a hug between client and T, but if the front of my body is mashed up against the front of someone else's body, and their arms are making a cage around me, that is SO not going to happen.
Hugs will be reserved for family and extremely close friends.
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Lol at the bold bit.