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Originally Posted by Phantom129
The thought of finding someone when I get older gives me hope but then again, why would girls find me more attractive then than now? If they don't give me the time of day now then why would it change? I try to remain hopeful but I'm almost 18 with still no dating history. Even a lot of non-popular guys have dated at least one girl by this time.
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What is 'attractive' does change as you get a few years under your belt. Attraction comes in many forms that do seem to expand as we get older. I didn't have a real relationship of any kind till I was 21 and then they just seemed to fall into place.
As for being friends with girls/interacting... Just be normal. I personally think that once I stopped caring whether or not I'd get a girlfriend and was just myself around others without any thoughts of relationships... I suddenly (well, slowly as I was blind to it at first) became attractive... Was ironic.
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