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Old Dec 09, 2014, 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0 View Post
Apparently I'm a crappy reader as well as sender.


I'm completely oblivious to the fact that a guy is into me until he spells it out. I always just think people are just being friendly.


In turn, I'm always friendly, and guys tend to think this means I'm sending out flirtatious signals...


I can't count how many times this has resulted in extremely awkward convos.


Luckily no friendships ruined, save for one, but that's a bit more complicated than misread signals.


And no, I don't send flirty signals subconsciously on purpose (never even knew that's possible to pull off)...

I'm just warm and friendly, its just how I am.
I see nothing wrong with this. I use to be more like you still somewhat but I had live with a manipulative depressed roommate(a guy and no we were not dating) he told me that I was "always" misleading guys, that I was "always" fooling them. Of course I started backing away from him more and more. There was absolutely no more friendship involved.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friendly, it shows that you are happy and carefree.
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Thanks for this!
Trippin2.0