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Originally Posted by growlithing
My mom was overbearing and also abusive. She would mock me whenever I did anything effeminate. She was very emotionally neglectful but it wasn't like she wasn't around. My dad was like a boarder to me. A boarder that hurt me when she told me to and hurt me in ways I didn't understand at the time.
I think it's less taboo for a women to refuse to dress like a woman than it is for a man to not like dressing like a man.
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I wonder why you used the words "...whenever I did anything effeminate."
What actions did you do that your mom could construe as "effeminate," lacking in testicular fortitude ("balls" as opposed to "ovaries"), and so on? What made them inappropriate? Why did you use that wording? Maybe if we probed this a little, we might find something important....