we have talked about moving in before, even marriage. when I was with him the weekend (before we broke up), he said about me moving in if I could. I made a joke about marriage & he laughed. my friend said he seems to be scared of this commitment when something like this happened before.

his ex gf, she was actually pregnant with his child (way before me) & she had an abortion which didn't help him. he said before he's scared I'm gonna do that.

I wanna talk to him in person about all this & just lay it out. he said he still loves me & all this stuff. said he doesn't want another woman or even to date. but I'm just not sure what's going on.

thank you for responding back. I appreciate your advice :