Raising kids as a bipolar is no easy task. I was a single parent, and came across crazy. When I found I was bipolar, my son was 13. Best thing I did was explain to him my condition.
Does your daughter know about your condition?
Stability is good.
I notice that you're on buspirone. One of my biggest complaint was not having anymore drive, feeling inhibited. When I found out that it's a mild tranquilizer, I quit taking it and that feeling went a way.
If the meds are worst then the symptoms, why take it?