((((lostinitall)))))

I am so sorry to hear about your struggle with your granddaughter. I do not think this is personal. She is only 3 and and 1/2. She may just be in a stage right now. The one great thing on your side is time. I would keep being there for her in mind and body but if you have to just put up with her fits, then let it happen and continue to be present for her as she will know you were there and she should grow out of this. I know it is hard but maybe time is all that has to happen.