Hey buddy I understand feeling self conscious a little too well too! Just thought I'd share a story with you. I'm a girl and my partner has the same condition as you (so does his dad and one of his sisters) but it doesn't bother me in the slightest and never has. I love him for him and it's actually a perfect ditch to rest my head on when we're lying on the couch (also fun at the beach when he let's me full it with sand ) The point is you just have to own it and come up with a retort in your mind in case anyone were to comment. For example I have very pale skin and without fail people always make some snarky comment whenever I wear shorts so I just reply with "And what. Did you think I'd take off my pants and I'd be black" that usually makes them feel real dumb. Good luck