"When you've met/had a child with autism, you've met/had a child with autism". No 2 kiddos are alike that have it. You know your babe the best, sometimes vests don't work or the weight needs adjusting. Sometimes vests work or make it worse. Are you getting a weighted vest or compression vest? Its all how your babe soothes themselves. Sometimes compression caps or lap weights are better. Please do message me if you have questions, I'm terrible at responding to threads! You can sew? That'll definitely be a usefool thing to save you money!