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Originally Posted by Shadix
Well, my PARENTS wouldn't object. My brothers are a different story. I'm pretty sure they would lose all respect for me if I dated an 18-21 year old girl. And that goes back to the irony of this post: the intolerance in my family is coming not from our religiously conservative native culture, but from western "progressive" culture. These ideas about it being wrong for a guy to date a younger woman are 100% from this culture we were raised in here, and as I pointed out, my mom says she had never heard of such a thing growing up in her native culture. My brothers reject the intolerant ideas which exist in our native culture, like homophobia for example, meanwhile they embrace the intolerant ideas of western "progressive" culture. It's just pathetic.
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This whole thread is all "what if". You do not have a girlfriend and never had one. When you actually. get a girlfriend then tell us how your family reacts and do they object or make it difficult for you, otherwise this is all speculations. You might not even get a younger girlfriend and might meet someone older than you! Until u date u never know.
And as I posted before I think you have a bigger issue than your brother making comments. Something preventing u from dating no matter age of girls and maybe that something needs to be worked on first. Therapy? Good luck
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