both my parents dont have college degrees. only HS and technical degrees. (and completed some college). my sister is the only one with a full bachelors and masters. and it kinda makes me look kinda bad (not entirely) that ive been in college already for maybe 5 years already now. and im still a freshman in college. with very little credits. less than a handful. but i know its because i had psychotic episodes in between and i was in hospital so many times. but nobody except my immediate family knows that. thats probably why they dont judge me about it.

i think my aunt was trying to be polite but it went a bit too far. she started talking about how her daughter didnt have a full time job. etc.