She knows my pin. My debit was in her car the day the money was "stolen". At the time of day she should have been at work, and the bank told me where it was used, and it was used near the location of her work. I've already asked her questions, lots of times. She denies it to no end, and she also denies she's cheating etc. I do love her and care for her, I feel like sometimes she feels the same for me. But then, sometimes, I get this feeling in my solar plexus. That, she may be out doing things. She's extravagant with everything. She buys more food than she's gonna eat, she's always buying clothes. She is already in debt with her divorce going on, but yet she's prodigal. She spends way to much, and I have told her this many times. Idk, either something is off or im paranoid.