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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
He has been pretty up front regarding what and how much of it he can give you at this time in his life.
And you seemingly agreed that its enough for now.
So either go with the flow and enjoy the ride, or keep looking for reasons why he's not a good match.
Two evenings a week is more than I'm currently getting with my bf, but I'm not complaining, he warned me, and I agreed, but it finally looks like his schedule will have some flexibility soon.
Maybe it was easier for me to agree to as my bf wasn't new, (we reconciled) or maybe I place more value in quality as opposed to quantity, idk. What I do know is, if you really are interested, then two nights a week is doable.
And if its only been a month, he might still be learning how to schedule working, parenting and dating.
I say cut him some slack.
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I cut him slack of course! And I do place value on quality.
think due to my previous experience I need to be extra vigilant about red flags. I am almost 50 and keep finding men who are literally clones of each other, they could be from different sides of the planet yet exactly same.
If he was my first or second Unavailable man i probably wouldn't worry either, but that's not the case. Attraction to same type of men is strong in me
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