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Old Apr 02, 2015, 09:23 PM
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Originally Posted by Seeyalater View Post
At first he did say he kicked me out because he paid the bills (mortgage & tuition). I from day one have paid the small bills electric, gas, cables, etc....We have no other bills at all. Yes because he pays the two bills above thats when he mentioned that he is like a father. He wanted me to quit my job because he didnt like the hours. I was getting off at 7pm. I took it upon myself to get another job. One of my part time job is coaching at a college. This job is approximately four months. Degree is in Kinesiology, with a secondary in teaching.
As time went on he said he kicked me out because I did not provide a hot meal on the table when he got off work. I do take full responsibility for signing the papers regarding the house. All my fault for not asking.
He claims he's still mad because of the dinners not being cooked seven days a week.

So you blame yourself for signing a paper but do not blame your husband buying a house for himself and asking you to give up your rights for it? Is this ok with you? You are upset over this cooking business yet you aren't upset over house ordeal. You paying utilities yet none of it is yours.

Did you ask him why he wants your name off the house?

And you quit your job just because he didn't like the hours you worked. It doesn't make sense. That's why he kind of is like a father of a little girl not a husband of a grown woman.

Were you raised to obey men?

Where do you think this marriage going? Do you plan on having kids? In that house? That is solely his? And him kicking you out? And not even knowing where you went? You know that good husbands don't throw wives out and wives don't just leave and couch hop with the dog. Not happening

You don't think you can have better than this? You deserve a better life than that. What do your parents say?

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