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Originally Posted by divine1966
So you blame yourself for signing a paper but do not blame your husband buying a house for himself and asking you to give up your rights for it? Is this ok with you? You are upset over this cooking business yet you aren't upset over house ordeal. You paying utilities yet none of it is yours.
Did you ask him why he wants your name off the house?
And you quit your job just because he didn't like the hours you worked. It doesn't make sense. That's why he kind of is like a father of a little girl not a husband of a grown woman.
Were you raised to obey men?
Where do you think this marriage going? Do you plan on having kids? In that house? That is solely his? And him kicking you out? And not even knowing where you went? You know that good husbands don't throw wives out and wives don't just leave and couch hop with the dog. Not happening
You don't think you can have better than this? You deserve a better life than that. What do your parents say?
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I had a conversation with him about the house. He was completely shocked that I knew. Asked how I found out. It really didn't matter how I found out. I blame myself for that.
I'm not upset over the cooking more shocked that his excuse is the cooking. He said he makes more money and should be taken care of. Yes, I quit the job because he didn't like the hours. He liked me home with him. Not because I looked at him as my father. My father wouldn't have told me to quit my job. He would of said do what you want to do. He wanted me home with him when he was home.
My parents are very equal in their marriage. They both speak their mind.
My mom said to leave him and my dad said divorce him after the third day of being out of the house.
Kids? He wanted me to get pregnant in December. NO!! I said no. Once again he got mad. I have to finish school and get grounded with a job first. He asked when I finish my degree if I would stay home, not work, and just take care of him. I worked to hard to stay home. I wont do that.