Kiya,

I have a similar situation in that I have at least one uncooperative alter who will not listen to reason. It's such a silly battle because in essence, we are fighting ourselves when we fight each other. But that realization does not put an end to our squabbling. Sorry I don't have any real advice to give you, but just wanted to let you know you're not the only one on the world out there who gets into arguments with their alters. Oh, how envious of I am of people who have good working systems! I'm still in the early part of my treatment with my ultimate goal of reintegration. If you find a solution that helps, please dont hesitate to share!