She says they've been together 6 years which means when they got together she was 18. I suspect there was no boyfriends prior to this one, how many could you have at 18?

I agree about therapy.

I overall notice many unusual things that might indicate lack of understanding what's important. Like every single post emphasizes who cooked what like first how many nights he cooked or she cooked and now he cooks more dinners when she not home etc why is it even of importance?

Two young people are so preoccupied with food. It is almost like focusing on minor things takes attention from what is really wrong with all this.
Dinner is petty. I totally agree. I wish my husband can talk to all of you and see what your comments are. He is stuck on the dinner. I stated that he cooked in the past. When he got mad and said I never cooked. I wanted to prove a point that he does cook as well yet he blew up.
I dont want to be arguing over this. He is the one that is stuck on this problem.