OK I've been lurking and reading and WONDERING if this guy could be on steroids or something??? Sudden change in personality, works out...I don't know how you could find this out though????? My daughter dated someone who acted in a similar fashion and he ended up committing suicide behind that type of drug (long after she had ended the relationship I might add). Anyway, has he buffed up lately????
Either that, or he is from a different culture??? one that thinks women should be subservient?
In any case, you definitely need to rethink this relationship, Seeyalater.