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Originally Posted by CANDC
Do you ever feel your T is trying to be a nurturing person who is giving you comfort and understanding that maybe you did not get when you were younger?
Fearing those feelings of attraction gives them more power. Reinterpreting those as nurturing not seductive can put them in perspective.
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Yes, I know that my T is nurturing but my feelings still confuse me because I react to her appearance.
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Originally Posted by Gavinandnikki
It's ok to have the feelings like you're in love. Real love is a good thing no matter who it's directed towards. No harm, just a sweet feeling. You don't need to fight it. You have a good therapist that understands where the love is coming from. So normal to feel love for a woman that you share your deepest emotions with and so obviously cares about you.
No need to fight the love. Right?
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I know you're right but I'm embarrassed at reacting so strongly to my T's appearance. I've been attached to my former Ts but never felt attracted to them. My T and I talked about this in the past, how it could be real and that's okay. It reminds me of a teenage crush I had on an actress, but my T really is very pretty, especially her hair. I'm having a hard time with my feelings, like I can't breathe.