Welcome to the forums. There is a relationship forum here where you will probably get more responses. I feel the same way you do in relationships a lot of the time. But I am insecure. Lately I don't always respond to his texts or phone calls. But it's only because I like my alone time, too. I will call him today, though. This is just a friendship I have but he may want more, I'm not sure. I feel waiting a day to call him is not a big deal. I had a really bad day yesterday and didn't want to talk to anyone. I have days like that. Maybe if you just waited for his responses it would go better. Best of luck to you.