My therapist didn't say anything nice for over a year - I think it takes "guarded therapists" quite a bit to warm up!
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Originally Posted by laxer12
My T is fairly new to the field and is pretty guarded and has solid boundaries so she really never says anything specific about me like that. One time I tried to get her to say something by asking her how she would describe me to someone else but she gave me a somewhat clinical answer and stated some facts about me.
I want her to tell me positive things she thinks about me but I kind of have attachment issues so I'm not sure it is in my best interest. I feel like I would have a stronger attachment to her if she said that stuff. I definitely would welcome it with open arms if she ever did say it though!
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