To begin, I do not quite know how to post an original thread, so I am using this reply window from last post.

1) A post that really bothered me stated (paraphrase) ".Everyone in the Emotional Support room were losers. If their problems as so bad, they should be in a mental hospital, not on this site. I am not going to be someone's free therapist and waste my energy."

2)I believe the ignore option should be a two way street. It is unfair, in my opinion, that when I place someone on ignore, that person can still read my posts and secretly, without my knowledge, continue to turn personal information about me into fodder for their own amusement, with the help of others (few, granted) to just joke about. I believe that to be just cruelty for cruelty's sake. Laughing about some ones personal struggles is mean. But no chat host has ever intervened in my experience. Making a complaint to a moderator is often useless and causes retaliation by the person you report. I feel afraid from how this site is set up.