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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I just want to say here Seeya, that while some posters may suggest being hard on him, that may be the wrong way to address this, keep in mind NO ONE is a professional here offering advice. I personally recommend that before you make any decisions that you do get "professional" advice. This way you have "help" for yourself, and you also make sure you are not hurting him in some way. I am sure you don't want to do that either. However, you do have to make sure you protect yourself because one thing I have noticed is your husband is not really thinking about "you" in what you have shared here. That concerns me. If you feel in any way threatened "leave", you need to think about your own safety.
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I know nobody here are professionals. It has helped to get feedback and to talk about it.In the beginning I would ask and get a bit defensive. It would throw him back the other way. I asked him a few questions a few days ago in a low tone voice. He went back a couple of steps. Now I'm doing what I need to do to get things done. I keep busy. No he isn't thinking of me in any way. Remember the money? How I just kept spending. I still haven't spent any money. He went out and bought another big item. I dont understand why he keeps doing this.