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Originally Posted by Jan1212
I don't know what to do, I'm still indecisive, after 2 years of emptiness from my husband. I'm scared of what's going to happen when I fully leave him. I'm slowly accepting the fact that he will not be with me anymore. That he will feel betrayed, and not want to be in our lives, probably..
I've been out looking for love and attention. I know I deserve it. while he is in denial of our separation, tries to get help with his issues and addiction to drugs. I've tried for so long after many tears, the cycle continues. It's so hard to leave someone after many years, many memories, but I Lost him 2 years ago, its too painful to linger anymore, for me and our baby's sake I got to move on, right? And is it wrong seeing this other man?
Am I doing the right thing? Everybody says I am. Except my soon to be ex husband, and me. I don't know I need reassurance. I'm numb
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Hi Jan, it is very difficult to be in a relationship with an addict. It is difficult to be there for them through recovery, but when the person you love continues on the path to destruction, then you are in the situation of asking yourself how much can I put myself through. When you have had enough you have had enough.....in any relationship. I would say, yes it is time for you to do what is best for yourself. Good luck