Not trying to be funny, but some women find it a big turn on if their guy does some household chores a) the right way ie so they dont have to be redone and b) without being told to. Also clean up after yourself in the bathroom, you know what im talking about. Treat her like your lover, not your maid or your mother. Maybe you already do these things, idk. But you wouldnt have to help her with her "burden" of being a woman if you carried your weight of being a man? Maybe the burden is just psychological - is there room for both your egos, and therefore both your libidos?